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Fate, love and a lifetime

Day 3 of 15~12 minThe romantic formulas every costume drama returns to
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缘分 · 一见钟情 · 心上人 · 一生一世

Costume dramas are built on a handful of romantic formulas: fate that brings two people together, love at first sight, a vow that lasts a lifetime. Some of them are poetry from the past. One of them, 缘分, is a word people use every day.

The words of the formula

Four you will hear in every romance.

缘分
yuánfèn
fate that brings people together
Everyday too: 我们有缘分, we were meant to meet.
一见钟情
yí jiàn zhōng qíng
love at first sight
A chengyu: one look, and feeling gathers.
心上人
xīnshàngrén
the one in your heart
A beloved. Slightly old-fashioned today, and lovely.
一生一世
yì shēng yí shì
a whole lifetime, for ever
The length of every vow: 我会爱你一生一世.
Why it works

缘分 is the key idea. It is not quite fate and not quite luck: it is the invisible thread that decides who meets whom, and Chinese speakers use it about friendships and business partners as well as love.

Costume, modern, real life

How each era says it.

I like you
Costume drama
我心悦你。
wǒ xīn yuè nǐ.
Modern drama
我喜欢你。
wǒ xǐhuan nǐ.
Real life
我挺喜欢你的。
wǒ tǐng xǐhuan nǐ de.

心悦, my heart delights in, is classical. 挺…的 softens it: I quite like you.

Wait for me to come back
Costume drama
等我归来。
děng wǒ guī lái.
Modern drama
等我回来。
děng wǒ huílai.
Real life
等我回来,好吗?
děng wǒ huílai, hǎo ma?

归 is the old word for return, 回 the modern one.

For ever
Costume drama
生生世世
shēngshēng shìshì
Modern drama
永远
yǒngyuǎn
Real life
一直
yìzhí

一直, all along, is the unromantic real-life word.

Why it works

The costume lines are not wrong Chinese, they are old Chinese: 悦 for 喜欢, 归 for 回. Modern dramas modernise the words and keep the grandeur, and real life lets both go.

A vow

Four lines that could be from any costume romance.

She
我们前世一定有缘分。
wǒmen qiánshì yídìng yǒu yuánfèn.
We must have been fated in a past life.
前世, a previous life.
He
那这一世,我不会再放开你的手。
nà zhè yí shì, wǒ bú huì zài fàngkāi nǐ de shǒu.
Then in this life, I won't let go of your hand again.
She
你说话算话?
nǐ shuōhuà suànhuà?
Do you mean it?
说话算话, your words count: you keep your word.
He
一生一世。
yì shēng yí shì.
For a lifetime.
Why it works

说话算话 is the most useful line here. It is ordinary modern Chinese, you will hear it in real conversations, and it means exactly what it means in the drama.

缘分, the hardest word to translate

English reaches for fate, destiny or chemistry, and none of them is right. 缘分 is the idea that a connection between two people was always going to happen, or never could. People say 有缘 when they meet by chance twice, and 没有缘分 when something does not work out, which is kinder than saying it failed.

朕
zhèn
I (the emperor)
本宫
běngōng
I (a consort)
对不起
duìbuqǐ
sorry

8 questions. Get 5 right to finish the day.

  1. 缘分 is closest to…

    • bad luck
    • a wedding
    • a promise
    • the fate that brings people together
    Show the answer

    the fate that brings people together Used about love, friendship and business.

  2. 一见钟情 means…

    • to fall out
    • one look is enough
    • love at first sight
    • to meet once
    Show the answer

    love at first sight A chengyu: one look, feeling gathers.

  3. 心上人 is…

    • a doctor
    • a rival
    • someone upset
    • the one in your heart
    Show the answer

    the one in your heart A beloved.

  4. Type the pinyin for 缘分.

    Show the answer

    yuánfèn Second tone, then fourth.

  5. 我心悦你 is…

    • a classical way to say I like you
    • a modern way to say I like you
    • a threat
    • a way to say goodbye
    Show the answer

    a classical way to say I like you 悦, to delight in.

  6. 说话算话 means…

    • to count out loud
    • to argue
    • to talk too much
    • to keep your word
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    to keep your word Your words count.

  7. Which is the everyday real-life word for always?

    • 一直 yìzhí
    • 前世 qiánshì
    • 生生世世 shēngshēng shìshì
    • 一生一世 yì shēng yí shì
    Show the answer

    一直 The others belong to vows.

  8. Type the Chinese or pinyin for I like you.

    Show the answer

    wǒ xǐhuan nǐ The modern way, from the ladder.

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